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Entrepreneur Office Hours - Issue #283
I’m still out here in California teaching the Duke in Silicon Valley program, which means I’ve spent the past couple of weeks touring various tech companies in the Bay Area. Let me just say, the office amenities at these places are wild. Gourmet cafeterias, unlimited snacks, yoga studios, gyms, pilates classes, massage chairs — and oh, the coffee bars. They’re not just coffee bars; they’re practically temples dedicated to the careful preparation of sustainably sourced, ethically roasted, perfectly brewed coffee beans served in artisanal ceramic cups. You almost need a master's degree in chemistry just to order an espresso.
I realize I probably seems a bit judgmental here, but honestly, I’m not. More than anything, I’m fascinated watching these companies invest so heavily in such extravagant perks.
Sure, the cynical take would be to dismiss them as superficial indulgences designed to lure young talent with shiny distractions. And, yes, it’s partially true. However, as an entrepreneur and educator, I also appreciate the other thing going on here, which is that these companies have figured out the importance of making their employees feel cared for, appreciated, and comfortable.
Entrepreneurship, after all, isn’t simply about identifying markets or building products. It’s also about creating environments that allow people to do their best work. Beneath the surface glamour and seemingly excessive perks, what I’m seeing inside these companies is a recognition that great innovation requires more than just hard work. It requires mental space, emotional comfort, and, yes, a really good latte from time to time.
Does every startup need an extravagant coffee bar or a private pilates instructor? Probably not. But every founder should remember that the teams they build will reflect the care they invest in them. Maybe that means snacks in the office kitchen, a thoughtful message after a tough project, or simply giving employees space to recharge. And that makes sense. After all, entrepreneurship isn’t just about what you build. It’s also about how you build it, and that surely includes the environment and culture you cultivate for the people helping bring your vision to life.
-Aaron
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Office Hours Q&A
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QUESTION:
Hi Aaron,
I’ve been following your stuff for a while now—your articles and videos have really helped me reframe the way I think about building. So first off, thanks for putting all that out into the world. Seriously. It’s helped more than you know.
Now for my question…
Everyone always says, “listen to your customers,” and I get why that’s supposed to be important. But in practice, it’s been kind of a mess. I’ll get a piece of feedback from one customer saying they absolutely love something, and then another customer turns around and tells me that same thing is confusing or annoying or useless. Some want us to build faster, others tell us we’re rushing. And it’s hard to tell whether I’m being flexible and user-focused or just flailing around trying to please everyone.
So I guess what I’m trying to ask is: how do you actually know which customer feedback to listen to? And when do you just block it all out and trust your gut?
Appreciate anything you can share,
Dylan
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Thanks for the kind words. I’m glad the stuff I’m putting out there has been useful. I sometimes joke that I make content for a younger version of myself who had no idea what he was doing, so if it’s helping someone else along the way, that’s a big win.
As for your question… it’s a very real one. The almost mythical advice every entrepreneur hears goes something like this: “Just listen to your customers.” Sounds clean. Feels wise. But as you’re discovering, it’s kind of like being told to follow GPS instructions… except your customers are all shouting different directions and none of them know the destination.
The truth is, every good founder eventually learns that “listening to your customers” is not the same thing as “doing what your customers say.” After all, customers are experts at describing problems. They’re almost never experts at prescribing solutions.
Let’s say a customer tells you, “I want Feature A.” What the customers is actually saying is, “I’m trying to do something, and your product isn’t helping me the way I expected.” Your job isn’t to give them Feature A. Your job is to figure out what they’re trying to do and then decide — based on your vision, constraints, and broader strategy — whether Feature A is the right way to solve that problem, or whether you can create a better path forward.
This brings me around to the most important filter you can use when deciding what feedback to act on: Does this input reflect a pattern? Simply put, one-off requests are noise. However, when multiple users (and especially your best users) start running into the same friction point or behavior gap, that’s when it’s worth paying attention.
Note, by the way, that by “best” users, I don’t mean loudest. I mean the ones who are actually using your product in the way you hope most people eventually will. Prioritize their pain because their feedback is usually a few steps ahead of everyone else’s.
Hope this advice is helpful. I know it’s not super specific, but you’re operating in a sort of gray area. Just keep gathering the feedback, keep looking for patterns, and, when the signals are contradictory, zoom out and ask yourself: What is this really telling me about what people are trying to do? You’ll often find that the clarity isn’t in what they’re saying so much as it’s in what they’re struggling to articulate.
Got startup questions of your own? Reply to this email with whatever you want to know, and I’ll do my best to answer.